Been Broken or have a lost soul
Have a broken heart and broken soul can be one of the hardest things to get over
Not bern able to Trust or know who to believe in and you can be hard person to love but I say no one is not untouchable it takes a special soul to get inside of you and he will find his way in and he will teach you again how to love and trust and he will put back the things that are missing from you and put that smile on your face again you will see the light that’s been turn off for so long
He will Patient and hold you in your times of need he will be strong in the times you yell and fight of what going on inside your head and when you push him away he will not run
but most of all he will not walk alway from the love he sees in you
we all have big hearts but some are little harder to see
He will stand by you and he will Support you
In all you do and on the times when you break down he will be the one who’s there
I am a Dom frist for a sub in her time when she needs that Discipline the Structure of what a Dom should be showing you my Dom side comes with rules not for me but for her to show her what she needs to keep her self safe inside her own self to show her what she needs to be strong I put a subs needs at a higher place of my own to keep her safe and making sure she is happy with in her own self it takes time to build on something that can torn down in seconds by others
It comes down to what she wants for her own self to keep safe as I work on her being the best she can be the role of a Dom is to give her what she needs the Strength is already in her but the power is hers but the control is mine
I work on the keys Opponents
Trust
Commitment
Loyalty
Been hers
Not giving up
Keeping her self
Making sure she feels safe
I sure there’s lots more you can add to the list
We as Doms can only give what a sub is wiling to take she has the power to stop it at any time as long as you stay in her Boundaries you will only be doing what’s right for her
Why do I need to Discipline
It to show her she can’t just get way with bad Behaviour but we must see where it coming from is coming form Anger
Or Disappointment or Frustration of what’s going on inside her head and if she been broken or hurt or feels like there something wrong inside her we can not Discipline her for that
The act she carry’s out can be told it not Acceptable and can be Punished
But what’s going on inside her head that is the real cause of what need to be Discussed to be a Master to her is to get inside of her head to find why she is broken and what her soul and mind are going through
The Strength of me to show her it’s not the Behaviour she shows when she knows it not ok I stand clear on what is Acceptable and not Acceptable
When is it the time to talk and get her to open up is when she is most clam not of the time when she’s yelling or feeling the the pain of what’s going on inside her own self
We must take the time to give her mind time to feel at ease this can be after a light play Session to make her feel so Relaxed
A Sensual massage or light wax play on here can make her feel at ease or a hot bath
Any way can work as long as she’s feels like her mind is at ease
Then it my time to show her the Master in me to Guide her to be strong and let out what’s going on inside her mind it’s time I must show her she can fully trust me in what she says to me
To be open and let go of the hurt and Anger that plays on her mind
We must Encourage he to open up fully and put her Trust in us ti tell us and not to be Judged or Ridiculed or to be dismissed
It so important the times she tells you things to take on board on what’s she says to understand of what’s going on for her is to open ears and just Listen
I look at it like sub care I call it mind therapy
We all need it it out time to talk and what are some of the big issues of what really going on for our subs
Does your Dom doe this ??
Ready take on board on you say it so important to give her time to talk and get out what going on inside for her how can we help her if we don’t no what’s going on for her
For me 80% Mental 20% sexual come on if you think it all about kink you NO DOM
It time to to know you sub inside of her head
So if you want to a Dom get inside he head
So subs if you want to be find a good Dom
See how well there listen test them on it tell them something if there pick it up that’s good if there don’t and your have to repeat it
You know you going to have trouble
But there is someone out there for all of us to put back what we lost yes not aways easy to find that special someone as so many have lost souls only hoping one day to meet that special someone
But why you wait it time to work on your self to build your own Strength up so when they’re come long you are ready for them
It’s time to do the hard work on your own self and emotions find your own happy place
Inside your self and heal
Yes people can break us and do the most Horrible things to us but we can grow and become stronger its up to you to take what there done and say I am strong and I will not let this pull me down or let this keep happing
I hear of women who stay in relationships with men who not good for them
As there think there is nothing else out there for them I say it time to open your eyes and look for a better way for life for you
No one should stay in a relationship if it not working or if it Abusive there are so many people who just put up with what there have and Notting will change of what there go through
You must find your own inner Strength to stop it from let you be who you want
It time to stand up and say enough is enough and love your self for who you are
The more love you give your self the more people will see it and you will pull in the people who will like you
It’s like Karma the more you put out of hood vibes the vibes will come back to you yes it not easy and you make me kick down again but never give up it like if you full of the horse ger back right on
Life can be hard but it can be good if you willing to work on it
The ones who just sit and do noting and Complain get know where the one who work on what there want rise and become who there want
Who we are as Individuals lies in your own hands no one else can change you or make you who you want to be
We can get help and Advice From others but the work must come from with in our own selfs to better our lives
For me I come from what would say a bad childhood but I come out on top and I shown the world I come out to be a Master on my own with giving my self the tools I need to grown in side my self if you like to know what I went through have a read of my writing
Called Abandonment it’s linked to my profile
And if I can come out on top I know you everyone can
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