Where is my mental BDSM gone
What’s happen to what we use to see a lot of the mental connection Way before you play
To build on that deep connection of what so many of us want out of BDSM
How do we get our mental connection
if it’s only about kink sex and yes it great to play but what must come first before we jump in
Just look at around you to hear the horror story’s of bad behaviour
People who think it a easy way to get sex or abuse people on this site
There are people who looking for a easy Targets to take out there sexual Desires on you
Who don’t give a shit around Protocols or rules
How far are you willing to put out
with someone who not taking care of your needs
Who steps over your hard limits and just does what there want to you
It happens in the Vanilla world all the time and it happens on here where someone is not listening to you or what you see is safe Boundaries
Do you have good safe words in place
Do you talk about what your Triggers are
How much talking are you doing
before you jump in
We just have to take a look at the Australian guy who killed the women over in Australia
That was just meant to be a bit of fun for her for a night
Crazy on what went down
To make you wonder how safe do you know who you Intend of playing with
How can you trust the one you talking to over the net
For me it’s all got to be that trust in what I say and how I going to make sure I got that mental connection before we can get to play
How do you I find your mental connection