Madboy252M Master
TO BE THE BEST MASTER
What does it take to be a MASTER
Dedication
Knowledge
Understanding of BDSM
Understand a sub and her needs
To know your own strengths in
In what you can give her.
It’s so important to know what you bring to a table .
To truly know your self as what you offer a sub .
Showing her your own worth in how you touch her soul and mind I can’t say this enough 80% Mental 20% sexual.
Reaching into her mind before anything else build on her trust and learn tech her about you open up fully be an open book to her.
Learn everything about her who she is take the time to understand her in every way.
Do not push to her to call you a name like Sir Dom or Master.
Let her discover who you are with out telling her she soon see who you are in how you treat her.
Get to know her From her own life and how you going to support her in every way of her life.
Most impudently give her a safe place to feel loved safe and Secure.
You must show your vulnerable side to her so she feels like she can open up to you to show her vulnerable side to you.
It’s building foundations it bulding on deep trust and fully understanding her needs and wants.
Just listening to who she is.
What happen in her life and understanding who she is deep down.
This will take time do not push it let her open up in her own time.
Working out her hard limits making sure she can trust you fully.
You must become her safety blanket.
Give her your arms to feel safe in.
It’s about all the small things you do put that glass of water next to her bed.
Cuddle her after play times tell her you love her and show her shower down and take good care of her it so important doing aftercare.
Tell her she’s been a good girl kiss her on the forehead massage her slowly do your aftercare and it so important
You make sure she knows she done a great job in pleasing you.
flowing it up with the up coming days
The txts with how are you doing when you with her treat her right.
To the aftercare on knowing how to look after her in every way.
The long talks and making sure she looking after her self in every way.
Making sure everything is set out right for her in eveything you do for her.
Work on the little things she will appreciate it more.
It the small things that count like looking after her in the best way keep her safe.
Giving her inspiration for been her and trying everything she may not have done before.
Give her the training she needs ask her to do a Journal to write her emotions down daily.
Get her three books a rule book so you both know what is expected of her.
And do punishment list in it as well.
Journal book
Rule and Punishment book
BDSM Knowledge understanding
Like BDSM Poses things she can take notes down on
So you both understands what and she Agrees to.
I always trial things out frist before you set in concrete.
That goes with tasks as well.
Never Force on what you want.
Remember it’s a gift what she gives you her submission.
Not to be take from her or forced.
You must be humble when it comes to her. In her times of need.
and what she asked of you and how you treat her yes there’s times when you must step up as the Master and take charge.
But never push her over her hard limits
Give her time to process on new things you bring into Dynamics like new ways of play or tasks.
Trail and Era will be more in place around this time
She must alway Agree with it all
So important you give her the correct safe words to use before any type of play goes ahead
Learn what TPE is and make sure she understands it
Talk to her about sub drop
Talk to about sub space
Go over all the equipment you she’ll use on her
Alll the safety tips you put in place for her so she understands it all
Remind her who has the power to stop it at any time
Woe those are my techniques I use for a sub and I find there work good for me
I sure you can add more things in there
Master D
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