TO UNDERSTAND
When you come here most only come here for the sexual side but that only a very small part of what true BDSM is about.
It like we all Rubik’s cubes.
Trying to unravel our own minds.
Yes some of us have more of it figured out of own selfs and Figured out then others.
My posts and writings help you to ask the questions on some of you who may not have asked.
Our own minds are the gate way to who we are in what we Want. Finding who’s we truly are.
I ask a lot of questions in my posts I put up infount of you so you may find yourself.
Find in working on your own self as in putting your own Rubiks cube back in order to know you own true self.
Do a lot of us work on our own selfs to give what we truly need back on the inside of our own minds.
Do we work in Structural way to give our own selfs the time we need.
I am deep thinker I understand a lot of minds on what makes them work.
The chaos can cause us not to shut down or to escape on the mind over thinking to let us not rest in peace.
Or what is missing from your own life in how you see your own self from who you are.
What missing out of your own life can make you shut down and not be who you meant to be it important to able to talk to someone who takes the time to get to know you from the inside of your own mind and understand you as a person to dig deep onto who you are where you come from.
I find a lot of people who just need someone to understand them not to judged them on who there are.
The more you learn on who someone is we can build on a deep understanding and make the relationship so much better it not always easy when the Focus is always the other side of fence.
We also have to remember there two people in any type of friendship or relationship and it nice to know you both can be Vulnerable and open and honest with each other.
Talking is the key to any good friendship or relationship but taking the time out and have that deep Intimate Conversations is so important to really know each other.
It can also set of Triggers.
When talking about things like Trauma and things that have happened and upset them in there lives but I just say listen to them and just let them tell you there story and do not try to give them to much Advice and work on just bern there to hear there stroy.
Sometimes we just want to be heard nothing else.
And other times there come ti you for advice.
I find my self being Vulnerable is a good thing to the right people it shows you got Notting to hide.
You can be fully open to them and there see how good you are as person.
Belive in your own self in who you are wait till the right people show up and just let you be who you are on the inside of you own self.
Witt know fear of been vulnerable
