My Feelings on the Puppies

Ugh. I can't even think about having a serious conversation with puppy M. He has no limits, tells me to do anything I want to him. If I asked what he likes, he'd say he'd like anything as long as I do it. So far, our DS relationship has been me mommy-domming him. I've been gentle and sweet and disciplinary. And we were both alright with that. Recently, he's been venturing out in Sadomasochism territory. He tells me to be rough, to hurt him. He told him to hit him if I thought it'd be funny, to pinch him when he says something I don't like. I told him if I were to now be physically violent towards him to his liking, we would seriously need to establish a safeword. Even in our gentle days, I wanted a safeword. But he's been putting it off because he'd use the excuse "If you're not hurting me, why would I tell you to stop?". So I let it be. Now that we're transitioning into Sadomasochism, I've tried to be more firm about the use of a safeword and aftercare. And constantly, he's been telling me that he's busy, that he doesn't care if I go too far. I genuinely do not like the "Ragdoll" kind of sub. The sub with no limits who wants you to drag them around everywhere and abuse them. Or the "They Hurt Me" sub. THe kind to tell you to do anything you want and even insist on the hardcore sub then proceed to tell all their sub friends what a "Bad Dom" you are. That's not my style.