So here update,he went on his very own and took the "quiz"......He's a switch,and it's funny because I can see it. Ever since our last conversation I've started noticing the traits,and I love it.....This is gonna be fun!
Ok, so I've been in a regular plain relationship,now I want to introduce my guy to the lifestyle but not sure how.....he says that he's open to pretty much anything except being "hit" so my question is where do I start? And I think he's opened "Pandora's Box"
So I have taken a bit of a break from the lifestyle due to the lack of diversity that I have noticed. I have been belittled and down right disrespected by a few people on this site because of my skin color. *Disclaimer* This is by no means a dig at anyone this is just my experience. I am a Switch and I have been working on my inner Domme but in my work I've been approached via inbox of Dominant's who would love for me to be their "N$#*!% whore/slut" seriously 😑? Is this the world we live in? What a huge turn off! Not just a sexual turn off but a major turn off of the community/lifestyle.
So as my neverending quest for knowledge about the lifestyle. I would love some suggestions for Lifestyle Literature.
So I was taking a shower and listening to my music (it's my unwinding time) and Rocket by Beyonce comes on and as I'm listening I realize there is a lot of BDSM references in mainstream music. Has anyone ever noticed that?
So I've been getting these random messages from overseas with these Insta-subs( People who are ready to submit without hesitation). Why is that? Is that what we are doing here? I know I'm a Switch but let me figure out which dynamic I want to choose. I'm kinda new to this.