What the entire !%$# am I doing?

So I have taken a bit of a break from the lifestyle due to the lack of diversity that I have noticed.  I have been belittled and down right disrespected by a few people on this site because of my skin color. *Disclaimer* This is by no means a dig at anyone this is just my experience. I am a Switch and I have been working on my inner Domme but in my work I've been approached via inbox of Dominant's who would love for me to be their "N$#*!% whore/slut" seriously 😑? Is this the world we live in? What a huge turn off! Not just a sexual turn off but a major turn off of the community/lifestyle.