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5 years ago. December 27, 2018 at 4:44 AM

So I've been getting these random messages from overseas with these Insta-subs( People who are ready to submit without hesitation). Why is that? Is that what we are doing here? I know I'm a Switch but let me figure out which dynamic I want to choose. I'm kinda new to this.

WEAPON X​(dom male) - Ah you gotta love the insta subs you talk 5 mins then they ask for money or something every time they are tge one i piss off the most lol
5 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - Its a definite problem, but I must say I have yet to be asked for money from any insta sub on here. Best thing is block and report with a screen shot if they ask for money. The site admin will ban them, though I guess at times its like wack a mole on here, with new fin subs and fin doms/dommes appearing every day.
5 years ago
HuntertheYeenQueen​(dom femme){Allie Kat} - They're everywhere. Some are trolls, some are simply new and have no idea what they're doing so they think it's okay to try and force themselves onto people. It's annoying but I've found that being strict and stern with them tells them off. Also stating on your profile (If you havent already - I admittedly havent checked ^^; ) that you're not here to find someone like that makes it easier to tell them off - I have it clearly stated on my profile that I'm only interested in my husband, so a quick, "Learn to read profiles" message usually shuts them up. Anything after that, I stop playing nice Haha.

Its the internet, and you're a woman... sadly, you have to get used to the harrassment. Dont accept it, just acknowledge it will happen and either ignore and block, or tell them off. If they really harass you, then report them.

I'm pretty new as well but having a very experienced sub has helped me. If you ever have questions, need advice, or just want to complain to a fellow girl who understands, my inbox is always open ^^ Good luck and dont let these people ruin this wonderful lifestyle for you <3
5 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - I guess you have yet to have one that get off on being talked to sternly. I have had a few of those lol.
5 years ago
HuntertheYeenQueen​(dom femme){Allie Kat} - Oh I have. They were blocked as I suggested Haha.
5 years ago
HuntertheYeenQueen​(dom femme){Allie Kat} - Oh I have. They were blocked as I suggested Haha.
5 years ago
Thecharmedmuse​(switch female){My Wildman} - We should send the insta subs to the interesting and persistent slave master who has not yet been deterred by my crazy antics of sending him pictures of my cat and strings of Christmas trees.... or a Christmas Cthulhu... He just won’t give up... I’d say it’s an issue on both sides ... although no one has asked me for money.
5 years ago
Cruel2bkind​(dom male) - Sounds like the same emails i get where a prince has left me money in africa:)
5 years ago

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