My Fantasy Zone

To whoever is reading, I thank you for taking the time to view my writing.

To begin, I have always been drawn towards men who are bigger and stronger than I am. For me, who’s less physically imposing, it’s very appealing seeing the buff, stocky, beefy-muscled men. Their physical and personal qualities exude confidence and inner strength. Men like this are often perceived as dominant figures simply due to their appearance. People often look upon them to lead and make various decisions for others.

With that, I intend to find that individual who yearns to be guided towards their best self and fullest potential. To encourage, provide support, and structure. I find it appealing when the larger, more muscular male submits to someone smaller and less physically imposing. It creates a contrast between both individuals and gives the impression of the larger male as a knight or bodyguard protecting the dom while under his control.

I hope to meet like-minded individuals who resonate with this. If you would like to get to know more about me and what I’m looking for, I have provided a more detailed overview written:

I view the role of a Soft Dom to be more than just simply being in control. It’s more of being a guiding hand to hopefully bring encouragement, support, structure, and more to allow one to be their best self possible. That being as an individual and sub.

While the feeling of being in control can be empowering, it’s not truly felt when you don’t have someone who chooses to listen to you. Someone who actively listens to you, understands you, and wants to follow your guidance is what being in control is. This goes both ways as well.

This is what I hope to learn and achieve, and what feels empowering to me.

In March 2021, I was in an online m/s relationship. This was my first real experience as I was inexperienced, but read up on a lot of things to have some knowledge. He was a muscular build male and what he wanted was a master to control his workouts, and body growth( becoming the desired appearance of what the master wanted). He was inexperienced as well and I never had the best luck finding anyone online until I met him.

We talked everything out before starting anything, so we were becoming more comfortable with each other. Involving his growth, I wanted him to become a more beefy build. He showed me that he was committed to our relationship because he altered his workout routine and diet to accommodate what I wanted him to be. Our way of communicating with one another was through kik. Eventually, we both had the idea of placing all of the tasks, rules, and other information somewhere else. For as we talk on kik, the information would get lost and it would be endless scrolling to retrieve it again. I began searching for apps that could suit our relationship, and that is when I stumbled upon an app called Obedience on the App Store. I am sure people are aware of this more than I am. It is an app designed for BDSM. We placed all of the important information in the desired tabs, along with creating habits/tasks for my slave. Sadly due to becoming busier with work, he wasn’t able to continue. He opened my eyes more and expanded more things for me than not I even knew. I never had someone serious and committed, which motivated me as well. I usually have rough experiences finding someone online, but he was the first real slave that I ever had. Our connection was genuine and I hope to continue my journey by creating new experiences just like this one.