A Strong submissive to me, is one that will stand by her Dominant against all others.
She is not a weak doormat that succumbs to the will of all others.
They learn about BDSM and about themselves, they find out who they are and where they belong.
They gain knowledge through seeking resources and asking questions, not by being lazy and asking a isnta Dom for all the answers.
Nothing comes easy that is worth anything.
Knowledge is POWER, all need this type of power in the lifestyle to keep themselves safe.
They need to know the diffrence between a fake and real Dominant.
Once they chose to serve a Dominant that Dominant teaches them, Guides them, helps them overcome obstacles in their path.
For the more the submissive knows the better for the Dominant and for the submissive as well.
A Strong submissive that submits themselves to a Dominant is a treasure to him, one to be cherished forever.
A Strong submissive can stand on their own two feet, but kneel to their Dominant.
But to NO ONE ELSE...
They may listen to others give opinions and ideas, But always refers back to their Dominant for clarification.
They seek out education from the community they join a munch, BDSM club, seminars, insights or other programs to build on this knowledge.
The more knowledge they have the better to serve their Dominant.
KNOWLEDGE is power,
The more one knows the safer they will be.
The stronger they will be.
The more worthy they will be to their Dominant.
Door mats are around for the fakes and the players to play with at times.
But the strong sub,, will have a dynamic that outlasts all others..