So, I did like the checklist on this site, but I don't think he would take it all the way through. Do you happen to have any resources that might be a bit shorter but still have the explanations? That really helped me to pin down my likes and dislikes. However, I am an avid spicy reader and know a lot of the terms already and the pleasure it might bring. I don't think he has this knowledge and would like to ease him into it.
My partner is a male heterosexual who acts like a brat and submissive but I don't think he realizes it. I don't know how to bring it up. I think he would be open to a bdsm relationship as we have done light restraint play but I want to do more. He definitely gets me going when he doesn't listen or teases and we end up doing vanilla that leaves us both unfulfilled. I don't want to scare him away as it would be unconventional me being the dominant. But he is asking to bring in a girl he met at a club which I wouldn't mind after having a thorough discussion but I don't think that will fulfill him or would be a band aid.