Thanks to all who responded to my recent thinking aloud about bodily exposure, and how often subs are badgered for topless or nude photos, or video connections such as on Skype earlier than one might be comfortable/.
There is a natural hesitation among many subs to give in to such demands, or certainly not too quickly. Often with good reason.
There's a middle ground which seems to me doesn't get nearly enough air time in The Cage--
Masks.
Everything from a simple Lone Ranger eye mask to elaborate Venice ball full face masks can work here. It is possible to engage in video sexting, or exchanging full body photo art while still maintaining anonymity.
Just wear a mask!
And if he bitches or grumbles, well -- tough titty to him!
At least if your pictures DO get displayed by some evil Dude on the internet, only you will recognize who it is if you were wearing a mask!
Just a thought about a little discussed option in the "To bare or not to bare" discussion.....