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Longer-Term D/s Considerations

Things unseen often affect relationships. This is a (perhaps infrequent) chance to look at some of them through the lens of a decade or more of online experiences with a variety of submissive partners.
4 years ago. August 9, 2019 at 12:22 AM

Thanks to all who responded to my recent thinking aloud about bodily exposure, and how often subs are badgered for topless or nude photos, or video connections such as on Skype earlier than one might be comfortable/.

There is a natural hesitation among many subs to give in to such demands, or certainly not too quickly.  Often with good reason.

There's a middle ground which seems to me doesn't get nearly enough air time in The Cage--

Masks.

Everything from a simple Lone Ranger eye mask to elaborate Venice ball full face masks can work here.  It is possible to engage in video sexting, or exchanging full body photo art while still maintaining anonymity.

Just wear a mask!

And if he bitches or grumbles, well  -- tough titty to him!   

At least if your pictures DO get displayed by some evil Dude on the internet, only you will recognize who it is if you were wearing a mask!

Just a thought about a little discussed option in the "To bare or not to  bare"  discussion.....

ADIDAS - Even though I have bared my face to MyDaddy and haven't a qualm one doing so as I have complete trust in him, I appreciate your suggestion as I will do that just to spice things up! I feel that might make things just a bit more exciting than usual.

Thank you Mr. Rick for a wonderful , imaginative way for those who aren't willing or ready to bare their face in pics\videos to have their fun and spice things up in the process!
Always enjoy your posts!

Ms. A
4 years ago

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