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Longer-Term D/s Considerations

Things unseen often affect relationships. This is a (perhaps infrequent) chance to look at some of them through the lens of a decade or more of online experiences with a variety of submissive partners.
5 years ago. July 19, 2018 at 2:28 PM

Being a longtime online-only Dom with some superb submissive women  has given me many chances to experiment with useful common household or office items as tools to bring physical sensations to a distant submissive. I thank each one for their part in this journey.

Classics of this genre are wooden spoons and rulers.

Still, there seems to be a continuing search to find ways to 'lay hands' on a sub in a strictly online relationship.  Today I will start with my smallest and most useful single Dom tool  for helping my sub to feel my presence with arousing sensations....

It is a little $1.98 card of ordinary bobby pins (hair clips in some countries)  available in any chain drug store.

Oh yes, your mind goes right to their most obvious use--a bobby pin clipped on a nipple can be more persistently ouchy than a larger clothespin.  I can simulate my teeth almost perfectly with this ordinary item.  (CAUTION--NOTHING should pinch a nipple for more than about 15-20 minutes max, to avoid any chance of circulatory damage!)

 

That's as far as many go in thinking about its uses.   But there is more.  A bobby pin can 'bite' almost any soft skin on a submissive body, and leave little teeth marks!  Think inner thighs, between toes and so on.

A clever Dom might require a sub to carry a couple attached to her underwear at all times, to remind.  Or just drop a few in a bra cup for the same feeling of being owned.

Or require one to be biting anywhere on her body whenever they communicate.

 All this (and more)  from the simplest little bits of bent steel....How amazing, and how much arousal to share.

For those already curious --Yes, bobby pins can be attached for more interesting sensations to labial lips, too.

 

For a quick and easy (for the Dom) correction, two bobby pins on the end of a sub's tongue for 10 minutes or so makkes a fair in -kind correction.  Of course, a 'proof picture' would be required to show compliance by the sub in correction mode.

 

 

I hope I've got the wheels in your head turning.  I'd welcome hearing about any other uses you like for the common bobby pin.

Rick

 

 

Finished​(switch female) - Mmmm, good times...
5 years ago
ADIDAS - *frantically scrambling in the bathroom for Bobby pins* 😉
5 years ago

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