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Longer-Term D/s Considerations

Things unseen often affect relationships. This is a (perhaps infrequent) chance to look at some of them through the lens of a decade or more of online experiences with a variety of submissive partners.
2 years ago. September 29, 2021 at 8:29 PM

There's a Forum thread on Lingerie that got me thinking about what  other aspects of scenes/ sessions stand out to make them truly memorable...

For me, erotic noise often comes right up there with sensual lingerie in putting me over the top.

I am talking about several kinds of noise--those first quiet moans, the whimpering from being edged or teased,  the frantic "Don't Stop!" as orgasm approaches, and of course the mantra of "OhGodOhgodOhgod" or some other repeated mantra as she crests and shatters.

Other kinds of noises are created by bdsm play, particularly  all sorts of impact play where the sub tries to hold out, then ratchets up through stifled gasps, to full throated cries/cursed profanities and perhaps glorious full-throated screams. Pain sluts can be especially vocal when really pushed-marvelously so!

For me, all kinds of these unplanned noises are huge triggers.  

But then there are those who do everything in their power to remain as nearly mute as possible.  Discussions between scenes quite often reveals a common, and totally understandable reason for their struggle to remain silent--They were/are mothers and had/have children at home...So sex  over several lyears was mostly a furtive affair of "Don't wake the kids!"   Breaking that code of silence can sometimes take months.

What are your favorite trigger noises ?

I'll close by offering a belated word of appreciation to any past or present sub  for all the highly individual  noises, joyful and otherwise, brought to their scenes/session --Thank You!

 

ADIDAS - It's everything I can do to hold it together when I hear a low grunt or even better when a growl creeps into my Dom's voice as he's giving me permission to cum. I totally understand what you're saying!! For me, spontaneous sounds are a huge turn on, it tells me that I'm doing my job well.... as it's deeply ingrained to receive pleasure from pleasing my Dom, as I'm sure most subbies are.

Thank you for such a great post! All your posts are quite good and give me pause to really think about things. Keep the great posts coming Mr.CR. 😊

Sincerely,
Ms. A 💗
2 years ago
CapnRick​(dom male) - Much appreciated, Ms A. I am sure your own Joyful Noises are much appreciated, too!
2 years ago

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