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Longer-Term D/s Considerations

Things unseen often affect relationships. This is a (perhaps infrequent) chance to look at some of them through the lens of a decade or more of online experiences with a variety of submissive partners.
2 years ago. October 9, 2021 at 2:10 PM

Over years of learning to be an inventive Dom who enjoys common objects as BDSM toys, the lowly and innocent little bobby pin has become a "go-to" fave for me.  Not quite as much a blunt instrument as clothes pins. and easier to hide in public.

Sure, the obvious is to spread one open and pinch a nipple with it.  Big deal, right?

So, to spur your thinking, here are other ways I get to enjoy focusing a sub's attention with what I like to call "my biters".

  --Have my sub clip her nipples with the loop down, points up on her nipples, and then hang some nice blingy earrings from the loops -instant burlesque      tassels!  Such fun to watch the shaking.  It's a nice icebreaker for a new sub's first "proof picture" tasking.

  --Requiring a sub to "wear" two biters clipped to her lingerie every day, and directing just where they will be worn.  Top of bra straps are irritating, front        of the pantie waistband gets attention each time she sits. Clipping the backs of her pantie legs also demands attention each time she sits...You get          the idea. And if she forgets to have them someday, a fine excuse for some funishment.

  --Even just having her drop one in each cup as she starts her workday can be a nice reminder that she is cared for.

  --Has she been bad and needs a small correction?  Clipping one to the bottom of her nose between the breathers  for even five minutes might focus           her on doing better..

  -- How many can she attach to one nipple?  Can she make  "pinwheels" of five or six  equally spaced on each nipple for a show-off selfie?

   --Upping the ante,  for attention getting pain, clipping  several bobby pins to her tender inner upper arms, or inner thighs, or the outsides of her breasts can be an amazing distraction from working toward orgasm..

  --Orgasm denial play can be helped along quite painfully by gently afixing a bobby pin to her clit, or perhaps placing several matched pairs along her           puffy lips make a real impression...

Have I sparked a new appreciation for the lowly bobby pin "biters" for either online or in person play?  They're cheap, too --a couple of bucks for a full card of them at any drugstore..  Got any other uses you want to share?

Enjoy!

 

 

TakenLower - I also like those little metal hair clips, the ones that women use to hold curlers in place (think 1950s). They don’t have a ton of bite, more than alligator clips and less than clover clamps. Definitely fun uncomfortable reminders of whatever the dominant wants you to remember.
2 years ago
CapnRick​(dom male) - Good tip, TL ! I will have to find some and try them out--fun project!
2 years ago
ADIDAS - Oooooooo..... I'm just all tingly all over.... ** giggles ** I have always wanted to see how some firm denial would be like, although I can't believe I'm saying that, lol..... usually what MyDaddy will do to "distract " me, just pushes me closer!! Maybe he knows that?? 🤔 hadn't thought of that...

oh well, those subbies that get the pleasure of serving you are very lucky girls!! You're definitely one of the last true gentlemen sensual Doms.

Thank you as usual for another great blog!! You know, I'm just gonna have to try it out and send a few pics to MyDaddy.... I bet he'll like this!!

Ms. A. 💗
2 years ago
CapnRick​(dom male) - Welcome, SD --would like to hear how your sub reacts when you introduce them to her!
1 year ago

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