Recently I've been reminded of how exciting it is to begin feeling a potential. Will there be sparks? Will we meet and drift apart? Or dive into an incredibly rewarding D/s experience? All those fascinating 'What Ifs' suddenly filling the fallow spaces of the mind.
The hard part is, of course, taking things slowly enough to intrigue, without being so slow as to create boredom or a turn off. Her shyness is a major arousal, but the hesitations are an ongoing challenge. The potential sub faces so many more potential risks and potentially dangerous pitfalls than in vanilla dating. It takes incredible bravery to be a sub.
I'm always in awe of how delicate a balance is required for a Dom and a sub to find each other, experiencing those first magic connections...Have you felt this kind of magic, too?
