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Defining my role as a dominant

This is my written process of defining what being a dom means to me. All constructive feedback is welcome.
2 years ago. February 10, 2023 at 3:58 AM

I figure that some form of this would go into an agreement up front.  Also, I did borrow some of the wording from another Dom.

My promise:

  • I will never intend to perform an act that would cause any lasting physical harm to the sub.
  • I will never intend to perform an act that would cause any lasting emotional harm to the sub.
  • I will respect the outside commitments (e.g. job, charity work, ...) the sub has and will not intend to cause issues for her in these commitments.
  • I will learn her needs and try to satisfy them.
  • I will learn her goals and help her reach them.
  • I will learn her hard limits and respect them.
  • I will learn her soft limits and approach them gently.
  • I will learn her safe words and respect them.
  • I will protect her.
  • I will be patient with her.
  • I will try to set realistic goals for each of us as we work toward the relationship we want.
  • I will make us my greatest priority.
  • When I communicate my thoughts and emotions, I will do so without any obfuscation. I will be honest and forthright.
  • I will challenge her, support her, and help her reach her goals.
  • I will be as healthy as I can be.
  • I will be open to learn and be humble when I make a mistake.
  • I will not forget for us to have fun.

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