1 year ago. February 10, 2023 at 3:58 AM
I figure that some form of this would go into an agreement up front. Also, I did borrow some of the wording from another Dom.
My promise:
- I will never intend to perform an act that would cause any lasting physical harm to the sub.
- I will never intend to perform an act that would cause any lasting emotional harm to the sub.
- I will respect the outside commitments (e.g. job, charity work, ...) the sub has and will not intend to cause issues for her in these commitments.
- I will learn her needs and try to satisfy them.
- I will learn her goals and help her reach them.
- I will learn her hard limits and respect them.
- I will learn her soft limits and approach them gently.
- I will learn her safe words and respect them.
- I will protect her.
- I will be patient with her.
- I will try to set realistic goals for each of us as we work toward the relationship we want.
- I will make us my greatest priority.
- When I communicate my thoughts and emotions, I will do so without any obfuscation. I will be honest and forthright.
- I will challenge her, support her, and help her reach her goals.
- I will be as healthy as I can be.
- I will be open to learn and be humble when I make a mistake.
- I will not forget for us to have fun.