1 year ago. February 9, 2023 at 3:22 AM
I think I am approaching a coherent philosophy of BDSM. Here is my draft of the overall principles by which I would live.
Tenets (in no particular order):
- The Dominant signs on to make decisions for two people with both of their interests in mind within the boundaries of the agreement.
- The submissive signs on to let someone else make decisions for her to help her grow as a person within the boundaries of the agreement.
- Honesty, trust, communication, and respect are at the heart of the relationship.
- Neither the Dom nor the sub is inherently better than the other.
- We are humans and will make mistakes. What matters is how we deal with those mistakes.
Comments, Critiques, and Questions are welcome.