Defining my role as a dominant

The other night, my wife and I tried for her to reach subspace.  I had read that we should not expect success on our first attempt, and lack of success definitely describes the attempt.  Oh well.

However, I did manage to tickle her a few times, and when we ended, she had a very red ass.  The next day, the bruises on her butt were very noticeable to me, so I took a picture of them for her to see.  (She said that now that she knows what they look like, she feels them more.)

Fortunately, she said that she would be willing to try again - after it heals.  :-)