Girls are raised with so many mixed messages, that they often don’t understand their purpose. They are taught to be good, and to smile, and to not talk back. They are taught, generally, to be submissive to men. But, they are also sexualized at a very young age, before their minds and bodies feel sexual, or understand what it means. They’re bombarded with images of beautiful, highly sexed women and they come to believe that their femininity and sexuality give them a kind of power over men. This misguided idea prevents women from having any sort of sexual satisfaction or meaningful relationships.
If such a girl is lucky, she’ll be discovered by a genuine man to correct her behavior, re-educate her, and get her back on track. She needs to have that sass fucked out of her. Only when she has been stripped of all self-possession, can she being to learn how to be a real woman, and find true happiness and satisfaction in serving the man who has saved her. This may take time. (A long time) A good Master must be self-disciplined in order to complete the rigorous hard work of tearing a woman down and retraining her to serve him. He must be careful that in his work, he does not develop too much sympathy for the girl he’s training, so that he can stay and keep her on task. And, while the Master may find the work of humiliating, torturing, and training his slut arousing, he must not let his own desire known to his trainee, or she may(will) try to take advantage of it.
While this process may be frustrating for the girl being trained, she knows she is getting what she finally needs. When she is finally on her knees, crawling, begging, crying, and humiliated, she sees her conflicting ideas begin to coalesce, and her false sense of power fade away. The sense of peace and happiness she begins to feel, and then to crave, as she begins to serve and worship properly, makes her understand what he is giving her: Nothing short of her life. She shifts from obedience, to devotion. And, with complete devotion, comes complete respect. Having to think only of her Master, and his happiness, frees her from having to think about herself, and her own frustration and confusion.
Without complete respect for him she cannot please her Master and as he very patiently continues to train, discipline and punish her, she begins to lose her desire for anything that doesn’t bring him happiness. Her happiness depends on his, just like any other pet. The happiness she feels when she is able to please him is the ultimate gift, and one that requires the highest level of respect to receive.