Thoughts of an orphan

A sub male reflects on his sexual desires and needs

Coming out as a submissive

2 years ago. December 16, 2022 at 10:35 AM

Your mommy didn’t love you enough. That’s sad, but it’s not what I want...

I remember a woman I found attractive saying this to me when I made my submissive side a little too obvious to her. This was years ago and the truth of me as a submissive was something I felt so ashamed of.

in truth I have always been ashamed of my sexual and emotional neediness, the fact that I need a strong woman to tell me what to do, to look after me, to nurture and nourish me.

im old enough now to put this need out to the universe. Is anyone listening?

B L O N D I E(sub female) - You are very brave to be honest about what you want. You have come to the right place.

You don't need to be ashamed. There are many male subs here and I've been speaking to a dominant male who has a lactation fetish so you are not alone. I would suggest you open a forum post about your feelings. This will give some of the other male subs here a chance to support you and offer you their words of wisdom.

Let me know if you want to talk, but remember that accepting your role in BDSM takes great strength and courage, especially for subs regardless of whether they are male or female. No one wants to think of themselves as weak and you aren't. You're strong and you will find what you are looking for. Peace.

2 years ago

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