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After reading a good friend of mine's post here yesterday, I thought I would touch base a bit about something of a favorite subject of my own:
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Humiliation
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Now you see this subject a great deal within the lifestyle.Β But, what you are really seeing is gawdawful attempts at it, which turn out really really bad.Β Β Such as the attempt described in my good friend's post.Β Β
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Humiliation is a tricky bitch.Β Β It isn't as easy as it seems, nor should it be.Β Β The first thing you have to understand about the subject is: it isn't for everyone.Β Β Just being in the lifestyle does not mean you should subject to be be subjected to this.Β Β As I have told many, many, MANY people over the years, not everything in the lifestyle is for everyone.Β It is like a Chinese buffet andΒ Humiliation is right next to that really spicy shrimp that looks like regular fried shrimp but when you bite into it, you have to down like gallon of milk to keep from dying.
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Now personally, I love a good s type that can take humiliation well.Β Β Not so much I enjoy seeing them lower themselves, but love what they are willing to put themselves for me.Β Β However, this takes a good deal of time to see if they are willing to do so, and it is time well spent!Β Β
To simply throw out a "You are such a slut" without testing the ground for mines is stupidity.Β Particularly for doing to a female s type.Β Β Such derogation have been used on women for non consensual control for centuries.Β Β Not all women will react well to it.
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Now on the other hand: Be honest about your Humiliation, on both sides of the collar.Β Β Way too many say they are good/acceptable of it but really don't know what they are doing.Β Β Don't say you are really into it then balk when something like peeing in a litter pan is brought up.Β Β Be honest of what your levels are, giving or taking.Β Β Β
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Thank you for coming to my discussion.Β What questions do you all have?
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