Tersely Pertinent

Recently, I had a local lifestyle friend wanting to sell off some of his excess things.    So looking around, I found a set of leather/vinyl wrist and ankle cuffs.    He also had this nifty set of slim shackles.  Also wrist and ankles.  So me being me, my tinker brain started winding and thought they would go well with my interrogation chair.

The main problem was how to get the shackles to connect to the wood frame of the chair.     Then it hit me:

Magnets!

So I went online and found these 130 # pull ones and screwed them into the arms and legs of the chair:

Now the shackles didn't have the metal content I was thinking, so made a bit of an addition so it would work with the magnet and this is what I ended up with:

Currently, I am using a cotter pin (it really isn't a cotter pin, but that is what I call it) to keep the shackle locked.   I may go get some small padlocks, but want try the pins first for safety.    The shackle itself can be separated from the chair with a really hard pull.    But looks rather intimidating, don't it?

I decided to see if I could do the same kind of idea with the leather cuffs I first put on.    A couple of fender washers and, Voilà:

In the end, I got both wrist shackles and one leather cuff attached, but then ran out of fender washers.   Guess I need another trip out to the hardware store.     Here is the almost completed chair.     It looks fun, doesn't it!

So it has been some time since I have worked on any of my BDSM projects.    Life and non interest has been keeping from starting anything new or even finishing up anything.  However, my fuck machine was close and I was at the hardware store, so got the few pieces I needed.

So now it is all together and works.    The stool is not stable enough to keep from rocking on high power, but a foot on the step will keep it in place while it runs.    Guess if I ever find a Testor to stick the end of it into, I will find out how really functional it is:

After reading a good friend of mine's post here yesterday, I thought I would touch base a bit about something of a favorite subject of my own:

Humiliation

Now you see this subject a great deal within the lifestyle.  But, what you are really seeing is gawdawful attempts at it, which turn out really really bad.   Such as the attempt described in my good friend's post.   

Humiliation is a tricky bitch.   It isn't as easy as it seems, nor should it be.   The first thing you have to understand about the subject is: it isn't for everyone.   Just being in the lifestyle does not mean you should subject to be be subjected to this.    As I have told many, many, MANY people over the years, not everything in the lifestyle is for everyone.  It is like a Chinese buffet and  Humiliation is right next to that really spicy shrimp that looks like regular fried shrimp but when you bite into it, you have to down like gallon of milk to keep from dying.

Now personally, I love a good s type that can take humiliation well.   Not so much I enjoy seeing them lower themselves, but love what they are willing to put themselves for me.    However, this takes a good deal of time to see if they are willing to do so, and it is time well spent!   

To simply throw out a "You are such a slut" without testing the ground for mines is stupidity.  Particularly for doing to a female s type.   Such derogation have been used on women for non consensual control for centuries.   Not all women will react well to it.

Now on the other hand: Be honest about your Humiliation, on both sides of the collar.    Way too many say they are good/acceptable of it but really don't know what they are doing.   Don't say you are really into it then balk when something like peeing in a litter pan is brought up.   Be honest of what your levels are, giving or taking.    

Thank you for coming to my discussion.  What questions do you all have?

It's early in the morning and I have my annual Physical this morning, so I am gumpy.

(Yeah more so than usual)

So to keep myself occupied til it is time to go to the Doc's, I am here online and reading profiles.  Course being grumpy I get all pissed off at a given statement:

"I am feeling more of a soft domme"

I find this to be just a pile of crap.

One is Dominate or one is not.   There are no shades of gray in this.   What you really mean is you are strict or you are not.   Or it could be you are a Top instead of a Dom/me.    Or it could mean you are really just kinky and have no idea what you are doing what so ever.

Rant over, go about your business

(if you think you are going to tell me I am not be respectful or don't understand, you can just get in your car, take the road out of town, turn left and then keep going straight til you just fuck right off)

Nothing says

Christmas

Like 

Jean Rollin

Lesbian Vampire Movies

Doctor:  Instead of blaming others for your faults, perhaps you should look in the mirror and see what He says.

Patient:  Doctor, I'm a vampire 

I flopped down in my easy chair and turned on channel 2

A bad ol' switch called Salty Sam was a-chasin' poor submissive Sue

He dragged  her to the old st. andrew's cross and said with an evil laugh

"If you don't give me the deed to your crotch, I'll whip you all in half"

And then he grabbed her...

(And then?)

He tied her up..

(And then?)

He coiled up his whip....

(And then? And then?)

Ack-ack

And then along came Doms

Tall, thin Doms

Slow-walkin' Doms

Slow-floggn' Doms

Along came lonely, lanky Doms

Commercial came on, so I got up to get myself a snack

You should've seen what was going on by the time that I got back

Down in the old abandoned Dungeon, sweet Sue was a-havin' fits

That switch  said, "Give me the deed to your crotch or I'll crop both your to tits!"

And then he grabbed her hair...

(And then?)

He ripped her shirt off....

(And then?)

He cut her bra off...

(And then? And then?)

Ack-ack

And then along came Doms

Tall, thin Doms

Slow-walkin' Doms

Slow-floggn' Doms

Along came lonely, lanky Doms

I got so bugged, I turned it off and turned on another old rodeo

But there was the same old Stoppn-up and the same Pony Girl Show

Salty Sam was a-tyin'  Sweet Sue to an old spankn' bench

He said, "If you don't give me the deed to your crotch, I'm gonna paddle you, wench!" 

And then he grabbed her

(And then?)

He tied her to the bench...

(And then?)

He picked up his paddle...

(And then?)

He swung back his arm...

(And then? And then?)

Ack-ack

And then along came Doms

Tall, thin Doms

Slow-walkin' Doms

Slow-floggn' Doms

Along came lonely, lanky Doms

Along came lonely, lanky Doms

I pay for my crimes.

I don't feel so good.

It is probably my meds, but I am blaming it on 

my choices for yesterday

It was worth it

Here I come to Saaaaaaaaaaavvvve the Dayyyyyy!