If you live in the USA, be extra careful today. Today is a holiday and there are cops everywhere. This is slightly less dangerous but still troubling: it's amateur hour for drunk frat boys, non-alcoholic drinkers who can't hold their shit. Common sense is not so common today.
IF YOU HAVE A MENTAL ILLNESS - Take your meds and be careful. If you live in a place where this is effective, wear a medical bracelet. Look up the stats for police encounters with mental illness. They will fuck up your day and they've been known to shoot.
My ex invited me to a BBQ and I told him hell no. He is still trying to get me to join his boring as polyamorous relationship. I told him if he buys me a new house, I'll let them both hit. Otherwise, ew gross they are busted. I do have a great relationship with my ex and we are both coparenting well. But he is dreaming with his thrupple bullshit.
The dog is afraid of the illegal fireworks. My kid is at her dad's house. I'm going to stop by a BBQ at Stanford you can say hi if you see me. I hate Stanford University, but they employ some of my associates. I'll make a video later probably; I'm anxious to making some progress with this social anxiety and it is hard as hell to break. So tired of being scared for no reason.