It amazes me to which the degree some people will go. Even old men who claim to be mature and a Dom for many years. I won't name names cause honestly I could care less, but to all my submissives out there do be careful.
Recently someone approached me portraying the want of friendship. I obliged cause I know what it is like to not have any friends and I enjoyed the things he had to say at the time. Well... said older gentleman and I had a lovely conversation. At first. Then he asked how I expected to find my soulmate with no picture. He already knew I wouldn't send one but he asked anyway. he had said so in the message if your wondering how I knew he knew. Anyway, after that and explaining why I wasn't worried about actually finding my soulmate, he insisted that I wasn't being honest with myself.
-Cue eye roll- Oh darling I have had people try to manipulate me before ,and mind games never work with me. Then he went on to state that I was to send him nudes of myself and open myself up to him fully and lay my life bare, as if it was an honor that he had even offered.
So I politely but firmly told him I was honest and open about myself, and that I had no need of a mentor but thank you all the same, to which he replied well said and then blocked me. I couldn't help but chuckle at the childishness of his reaction. So ladies do be careful of those who say they would like to be friends and then try to manipulate your into more than you want. I have seen it a lot but , just because I know what to look for and what to avoid doesn't mean others do as well.
On another note, I tired to make a friend of my own yesterday, but was told based on my profile that we wouldn't get a long. So I ask the question, is there something wrong with my profile? Am I approaching people to find a friend the wrong way? While I don't want a relationship, I would like a friend that I could cut up and laugh with who is probably just as dirty minded and full of adventure as I am. Guy or girl. So could someone give me advice on this? I might be rusty as I have not had any friends since my high school days.
