So I have noticed that a lot of profiles say something like " what will make me happy and thus you happy, or what makes me happy makes you happy"
Ok I get it. That's an interesting kink to have, but just to be clear it is not MY kink. I do not see making the person I am in a dynamic with happy, to be happy. Granted I could get a smile or two out of it, and some satisfaction in knowing I was a good girl, and made them happy. But that is never ever going to keep me happy.
1. I need personal time. I like getting my nails done or doing them myself. I like dressing up or goofing off and acting childish. My inner child is bright and happy go lucky , being an adult all the time sucks.
2. I want what I want, not what anyone else wants. How would you feel if all you ever did was give and give and give? Nah I'm not about that life. I'm all about giving and receiving, sharing can be discussed on certain things. I'm not sharing my stuffies, footy pjs, or chicken nuggets.
3. Also I'm not a 24/7, I'm more let's have a nerf gun war because you pissed me off and then have a session of spanking and edging, and then end it with rough hot passionate pretend makeup sex, cause let's face it I can never stay mad for long.
4. I want fucking cuddles and kisses, and if I don't get them you will most likely hear about it, and then the brat will come out, and ,well, it can be a long road if it is made that way.
So you see, making someone else happy is nice and all but it's not all about them, it's an equal give and take or nothing for me. However, I would love to hear everyone else's ideas of happiness and what makes you happy about it. I love learning. So tell me are you a Give and take, a give only, a take only, and why?
