shebakesalotsub female
shebakesalot
WHO IS SHE?
Physically - I'm 35, 5’1/145lbs, Latina, brown eyes, curly hair that is currently purple, active (can back squat 165!) but love PIZZA, non-smoker, clean/DDF. And I’m originally from Texas, but sadly lack the accent
Personality - Sassy, classy, and a bit smart-assy! A good mixture of ambition, kindness, humor (DAD JOOOOKES), quirky, and just the right amount of cheekiness. I've been described as playful, big hearted, witty, curious, easy to talk to and a good listener, patient, open-minded... and MORE! Acts of Service is my love language and what drives my submission. I’m enthusiastically giving and I aim to please!
Interests - Mostly a homebody or a small group hangs kind of person. Some of my hobbies include: baking, taking pottery classes, exploring new restaurants around LA, going to live sporting events, concerts, Formula 1, traveling, reading, and adventuring with friends. I’m also a life-long student and enjoy learning new hobbies or just diving into new subjects of interest.
Daily life - I have built a successful career in TV and love what I do. Definitely goal-oriented. I live in my own place (no roommates except for my cat and dog) and I am financially independent. I’m the kind of person who is always there for her loved ones and will do the same for my Dom. I am in a leadership position in my career and my submissiveness helps me wind down and come back to myself. My ADHD is exacerbated when I'm highly stressed and I will turn to my Dom to guide me back to myself. This is sometimes expressed as being a little Bratty. It's infinitely rewarding when I've built trust with someone and have a safe space to truly submit to them. Making my Dom happy, makes me happy :)
I'm in a place of intention in my life and looking for a partnership with a Dom, but taking my time. No need to rush. Looking for someone who will cherish me through my submission and be the person who grounds me; who I know I can always come to with all my secrets and dreams and goings-on in my life. Open and honest communication is KEY and I cannot stress how important that is for me. I need to feel safe in order to thrive in my submission. I’m drawn to people who are commanding and charismatic, can take control firmly and confidently, but will also be affectionate and gentle. I’m a sucker for pain, but not in the #feels. I prefer a Daddy Dom who is stern, but nurturing, and will always keep my best interests in mind.
Yes, I’m submissive and it’s a part of who I am, but at the end of the day, I’m a human being, y’all. Please be respectful and show me some basic decency. I’m not afraid to speak up and will respectfully call you out if you step out of line. It’s a two-way street in a dynamic and we both maintain our agency. I will respect you, be honest with you, and support you just strongly as you do for me.
I love impact play, being restrained, edging, discreet public play, making out, and THRIVE off praise. Open to trying most things so long as there's been a discussion around it. Can't knock it 'til you try it twice!
I’m in therapy and tend to my mental health, as I feel it is the foundation of being my best self for my partner and I prefer they are doing the same. I want to build a life with my partner around shared values, goals, and grow together. Be a power couple kicking ass and living a life we've proudly built together. I want a mix of vanilla and the added adventure (and freedom) of kink. Oh, and lots of laughter :)
What I need from my Dom:
1) Patience, I can be reactive when stressed (ADHD overstimulation), but I am working on it. And while somewhat experienced in this lifestyle, I've yet to have fully integrated it into a partnership, so please be kind and understanding. I'm a quick learner and eager to excel!
2) A calm presence for when I am not. When everything around me is chaotic, you are my anchor. The guiding light I return to when I need it most.
3) Honesty, it's the foundation of our dynamic and relationship, and I personally find it difficult to repair once it's been broken
4) Playfulness, I can be silly and hope you can be, too. Laughter is the best way to bond
5) Intellect, as there is nothing sexier than seeing my partner nerd out about their passions or have lively conversations together about everything under the sun.
6) Integrity in honoring your own values and ethics. How you carry yourself and your actions help me rise to be in sync with your efforts. I am a reflection of you and am honored to present my self as such.
7) Loyalty, the above point in action. With patience and compassion, when you have me, you have all of me, fully.
