11 months ago. Monday, February 3, 2025 at 5:25β―AM
Β Connection is the most important and powerful thing for me and you already doing that.BDSM and lifestyle are never about looks. It's all about mind and soul.Β it's the emotional and mental connection that is reflected in intimacy. Even out in the public. Connection goes deep into the dynamic to stimulate the mind the rest follows.Β
One of the best feelings is finding someone who gets you. A person who lets you be vulnerable and honest.
The kind of person who encourages you to push past your flaws because they accept you as you are. Someone who never tells you you're too much of this and too little of that. Because to them you're just enough of everything they love. That's one of the things I admire about you...
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You have some kind of boundless faith in the future. You never give up. Always be a person with self-respect and boundaries
The real flex is keeping your heart soft and your boundaries strong.
βYou can't force effort, patience, understanding, honesty, loyalty, commitment, trust and you can't force a connection.β Nothing can be forced only endured.
A submissive wanting to feel secure, respected & considered is not asking for too much.
You can't force a connection. We meet the right people at the right time under the right circumstances through natural vibrations.
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The real flex is keeping your heart soft and your boundaries strong.
You deserve a slow love. Uncomplicated. No rush. Stable. Consistent. You deserve that love. You deserve someone sure of you, that you're sure of.
Starve your distractions. Feed your focus.
You are the greatest project you will ever work on.
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Love like Cheesy Potato Fries
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Connection
Always listen to your gut your friends people that care about you even yourself.
11 months ago. Saturday, February 1, 2025 at 6:09β―AM
Safe Sane Sensual SapioΒ mind of the compassion spiritual drift of the dynamic. Soft but even with hard-core passion & pain experienced together with love. The strong hand to guide in traditional dynamic scared bond. Bond is rare to awaken a soul. Dynamic in my eyes, is more of art, old school love, and trust with bond. Both hold the key it takes two not just one ride or die be they in the good or hard make through it all stick behind them. Everyone might experience it diffren't but your love will be your bond with your yin and yang of soft sapio core. No labels it's more within your love and the core of your soul that binds this together the splash in the cosmo's together. You know the feeling when two souls spark it dam does it feel good it's rare but it can happen.
11 months ago. Saturday, February 1, 2025 at 2:42β―AM
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Not to wring a jerky neck, But being a jerk is not your fault no one comes with a book. Jerky needs a friend too.Β
But if you have to be jerky write in your intro that the other sex is weak that should not proceed. Why do you write to people then?Β That everyone gal or guy is drama maybe it's time to take a break and think about things. It's the way you respond to things.Β
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How can you deal with yourself the man in the mirror it's your ego you share it in this way you have the same image that you put out the ego reaks it can be smelled a mile away and yes Anger will never win the war with the ego or getting to know anyone seeing that people tend to walk away.Β You want to call yourself gentlemen cause a woman brings life to this world you came out of one you gentlemen are the protectors but a a bottom has to feel calm and protected even to proceed.Β
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Being a bottom or any sex does make anyone weak but if you have an ugly ego you are the only one weak that reaks miserably and no one wants to come near not even 10 inch pool.Β A submissive/bottom/slave is still human and they are still strong so for one to be Master/Teacher/Dom it's your job to grow reasonable examples in dynamic and show it cause if you go in public acting like a prick you will be questioned and ask to leave. And people will protect the sub.Β Any Master has to be a student first and then to be a Master.Β You treat your family well then treat others like simple tasks it is.Β
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You're best off alone or getting a blow-up doll. People are getting too good for this crap.Β Β But if you wanna heal then so be it but if you call yourself a Man then Master upon being the one for yourself learn to love and make peace with whatever in your life let go of the past. Just because you're not happy does not mean you have to be the prime jerky cause if you act this way every person blocks who will deal with you as you will only have yourself to deal with.
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Being a jerk also is a reflection of yourself it comes crawling back to you your health family and friends and job you act like this around anyone the whispers of the debts of your ego will haunt you for the rest of your life until you finally come with peace with your ego. Don't wait til your deathbed for your last words I should been better.Β Not too late to change your past is not your present it is you who you choose to be in this life.
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Maybe you did not have the best life but you must make the best life for yourself enchant your life don't allow yourself and your mind to be some humbug. Yes, very few kind-hearted strong people might be able to try to help you but you have to be willing know one can do it for you. But ego can cause health problems and mental in the mind but it's not your fault no one comes with a book to this world.Β
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But it comes down that even jerky needs a helping hand, Want to get coffee what bothering you? Let's see what we can do. In this life, communication is key if someone comes up to you and cares they are willing to hear your fears and dreams and work with you on things. Even in any relationship with people you need that kind. may not be all your fault it's not because not been enough help.Β But comes the point that someone had to say you have to heal your past from this control and get it out of the belly area solar plexus chakra.Β To cut cords of the past and things make peace let it sail or explode on a mother ship.Β Β Not saying you have to be a healed person but mend the ways the light has to break through you have an essence that needs to thrive to break out of its shell.Β
You don't need a piece of paper to tell you just be yourself all that matters.Β
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Enigma - Return To Innocence
Po | Yin & Yang (Kung Fu Panda)
Steve Winwood - Higher Love
Spice Girls - Spice Up Your Life (Spice World)
Spice Girls - Too Much
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Spice Girls - 2 Become 1
Spice Girls - Mama
Ace of Base - Beautiful Life
B-52's - Roam
The Smiths - How Soon is Now. 1984
Lana Del Rey - Carmen
Lana Del Rey - Cinnamon Girl
Dorian Gray | Young and Beautiful
β¬ hilda + malthus β· hilda furacΓ£oβyoung and beautiful
Β Classic Gent it feels like with a man that can be one
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11 months ago. Tuesday, January 28, 2025 at 4:45β―AM
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Intelligent mind, laced with wit, subtlety, humor, and mutual satisfaction all of it.
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Yeah sure you're good looking but what turns me on is the quality of your consciousness, the depth of your soul, your sexual discipline, Your devotion to growth, your morals, mindset and motivation, and most of all . . . The emotional intelligence of your heart and mind.
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Do you know what is really, Powerfully sexy? A sense of humor. A taste of Adventure. A Healthy Glow, Openness. Courage. Humility. Appetite. Intuition. Smart-assbacks. Presence.
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Fascinated by a soul depth of intellect rebellion with cause, love without conditions, and music that makes you feel different.
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Arouse me mentally so I can feel you spiritually then when we touch physically we'll fall in sync soulfully.
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"I crave so much more than just a physical connection. I crave words and depth. I crave who you are and where you came from, your desires and fears. I yearn to know every inch of you beyond the surface."
1 year ago. Saturday, January 18, 2025 at 3:47β―PM
I saw this scene I thought: "he does love her, he jumped after her after all, he just won't admit it", thanks to life and it's harsh lessons I've come to understand that he jumps, not because of love but because of ego, he has a hard time letting go of someone who adores him so much, so devoted and admiring of him, he is not jumping to save her, he is jumping to save what she represents...love to himself.