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What does a collar really mean to you?

To the people associated with our D/s Community a collar exhibits profound feelings of respect, intent, and more.
Unlike a ring on the finger which most often says ( I am Married, don't ask) a collar may be more intense than any ring. Collars come in many shapes, styles and of course sizes. Her collar may be a simple gold or silver chain, or may be a profound as a steel, platinum or solid gold accent bearing the name of her owner. Collars can and many times are the very jewelry associated with submission and ownership. To be "COLLARED" in a ceremony in front of your D/s friends, or family is a profoundly unique and special social occasion. Next to allowing yourself to be tattooed or branded, few signs of absolute submission can be paramount to these.

Women who accept the great responsibilities of becoming the wearers of such a permanent mark, are to be socially, emotionally and physically raised to a higher degree of professionalism and acceptance that the norm. Collaering should never be taken lightly, as it cannot be divorced in the social manner. Only the owner has the ability to allow the collared person to remove her collar and to set her free , if and only if she desires to move away from her obligation. D/s people take a collar much more serious than any marital ring. Some females love the big rock on their hands - but what does that really represent - a lifeless value? Wearing another's mark of slavery is profoundly much more emotionally deeper than the value of a stone. Monetary values mean little to most practitioners of D/s, while true ownership mean life and happiness, accepted and desired. DO NOT BREAK THE BOND!
6 months ago. July 2, 2024 at 3:53 PM

Life has many paths - the ones you choose can lead you to enlightenment or failure.

Fantasies are hidden dreams many have but only a few act upon.
We are slightly above ANIMALS. We were meant in the circle of life to have instincts. Men have an instinct to protect women, while women have an instinct to cater to men!

I believe that is why in the late 40s and fifties men went to work, while women stayed at home and waited for their husbands to return.  Divorce was almost unheard of! Men worked, and women raised children.  Childcare was only for the rich and famous!

TODAY - much of this natural behavior has been forced into the shadows of our minds and history.  Most men are no longer the protectors our fathers once were.  Women have lost their way as well.  The younger generation no longer looks for the perfect marriage or seeks to be a stay-at-home wife.

Femininity has fallen away from wearing dresses, modesty, security, and yes to a degree obedience. We men remain physically stronger than women. Women still have their nurturing instincts, yet have forgotten how to make a meal, keep a home, or even how to please and keep a man's attention.   Men hop from woman to woman, while women jump from bed to bed!

Don't get me wrong - I am not a misogynist - rather a realist! I am well aware that a woman can do 98% of all jobs a man can. That pendulum swings both ways. Men cannot have babies, women are not meant to be as strong physically as men.

Yet we are BOUND to each other through our animal instinct to make love, interact, or have families.  To this day, many no longer respect their mate or their promises, the family CORE is broken. 

WHERE DO YOU WANT TO GO? Life is short, nobody knows when our sands of time run out.  FACT we will not live forever!

 Are you strong enough to act upon your desires, no matter how dark, secret, or diverted you are to our society's teachings?   Having enjoyable SEX is one of our makers' greatest gifts to mankind.   That goes for old farts as I, as well!

msMoonCake​(neither female) - Enjoyable sex is not enough, but please enlighten me to the way of getting and keeping a males attention
6 months ago

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