I'm just a girl that likes to be tied up, spanked, Choked, Blind folded, put on my knees to beg for my Dom's belt, and so much more. The only problem is ....I'm Ace. Now don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with being Ace and liking to be punished once in a while, but to many people its a weird combo to have.
Most like to say that in this community not a lot of people are in it for the sex and, its just a way for them to be free and get out a certain type of emotion that can only be reached when the are in the state of bliss when they are spanked or whipped. They find a kind of peace or in a way the gates to paradise. Most tell me its all about respect and giving control to someone you trust to take you to that state of peace and I let all outside things stay outside and to live in that moment with them. Some say they don't have sex at all, but from my encounters; its nothing but sex for these people. Maybe I am talking to the wrong type but it seems like I cant land someone who is willing to give me a chance.
Now its no surprise to receive a DM on this site. A stranger has read your profile, wants to get to know you more, learn about all your kinks and need in any partnership, you do small talk, see how things go on , you talk and you talk, you find that you both have the same kinks and many other things. Then comes the question " Would you like to play a little and see how it goes?". You get excited and do a little bit of play together to see how your energy's fit together, it all works, you are the heat of the moment and then........The more. Now all parties are free to say no if they don't want to do anything; However the energy is there, its hot, you are both in that state of heat.... but you don't completely feel the need to go further.
Now i know you are all reading this with some type of thought in your head, some or understanding and others are more or less like " What?". This is something I deal with on a daily and as much as i wish i could be the whole package to rock and roll after some foreplay, I'm not. I would rather just come down from the high and cuddle and just be in the moment with my partner. I don't need that physical connection with you to know that what we did was magic and that is something that you can only get at that moment. I just want to play and be together and that't it.
Now don't you fret, There will be days where I will want you to choke me, while you are drive into with all the force and need to be close to me. Fulling me with your cum, so you can mark me as your toy and no one else. Or to hear me beg you not to stop fucking me even though We have both cum 3 times in a row, I will ask you not to stop. However, most days will be play and no sex and i want you to be ok with that.
Now this is not a AD to make me sound needy and whiny. This is just me an Ace girl wanting to be tied up and once in a while fucked by someone who will respect my needs and non needs and be happy and understanding about it.
