Grief

So I am having an easy Saturday night. Finish watching a movie. Search the internet about the quantum physics of Crappie fishing. I Decide to get on The Cage and read some peoples opinions in the forum section. When reading one post about something I have already forgotten there was one reply that stood out. It was from a submissive that made a lot of sense and was articulate. She seemed sweet and made a lot of sense. I decided to look at her profile. After pulling it up I could not get past the pictures. I only saw two, there could have been more. She made the most of those two. She was doing things to herself that didn’t leave anything to the imagination. Now I could have sent a message and said the usual about not attracting the right kind of Dom or sending the wrong kind of message. I didn’t. Didn’t feel it was my place. so that is my question, What would you have done? What would you have done if you were me?