I have spent a lot of time thinking recently. Many things crossed this addled brain of mine, it one that stood out was just how much I’ve learned about the lifestyle. From what humble beginnings I feel that I have evolved into the semblance of a Dominant.
It’s been a slow journey, to be sure. I still marvel at how much I learn and yet each thing I learn leads me to discover something else I didn’t know. As the old saying goes ‘you don’t know what you don’t know until you learn it’
Not just about being a Dom. I’ve learned about submission and what it means to the one that gives it, as well as how much I should treasure it. It’s not a thing easily given (red flags if they do!) nor is it a thing to be handled carelessly.
Some of the best times of my life have been with a submissive woman. Hands down. I only hope that she has felt that joy and love and care that I felt towards her. By nature, I am a very stoic person. They have seen the silly me, the smiles and the deep care.
I said all of that to say this. I am still learning. I will continue to learn until I die. I don’t have the answers. I may not even know where to find them yet. But I will keep trying. And I will keep looking. Some people would give up. I won’t. I am a Dom and I am still learning.
