Good morning, fellow kinksters,
I hope this fine Friyay morning finds everyone safe and happy. This morning marks the beginning of my 6 day ‘slog’ until my next day off. You gotta love retails work hours! Not so much that I dread it, but it is not much fun most times.
I could just quit, but then there would be too much time to fill and I’m just not good at literally laying around and not doing anything.
Notice there that I said I could…that’s the free will portion. We all have that. We could all just quit and become vagabond drifters, if we decided to. That marvelous little part of us that gives us the ability and drive to do things. Yes, that’s free will.
We are fortunate to live in a place where we can make up our own minds as to what we want and what we do. With that comes the powerful responsibility of owning what we do. The bottom line is that there is no one to blame when things go south other than ourselves. Why? Be cause we put ourselves in that position.
This lifestyle, dare I say more so than with our vanilla counterparts, forces us to own our decisions. Sometimes, God forbid, there is real damage done to another person. None of us wants that. A little bruising is one thing, but straight out abuse disguised as kink is downright wrong, in my opinion. There are the wannabes that do not really care about their charges. That’s free will.
Another free will is the one where the abused gets out of that situation. We cant make them make the healthy choice. We can only encourage them to use their free will.
Max
