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AndronVerified Account

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
5 days ago. March 28, 2025 at 6:54 PM

Maybe in the early days of internet dating, people met and became friends and lovers. I don't even want to guess how many. But nowadays a days would guess at least 90% of online dating and meeting is fake. Scriped scammers or even AI bots. In my book, it has become hopeless even to meet a friend, let alone a real lover. It may seem too technical for some people, but I was hoping to have a woman friend who could ease the stress of seeing my wife gradually disappear as I care for her.

A FWB would be healthy since doctors told me having sex is beneficial and would extend my life, and caregiving has the opposite effect. I am not looking for a woman to replace my wife. A new friend and lover would be part of a new life. A life I would be hoping for in the future.

https://news.cuanschutz.edu/news-stories/can-finding-love-later-in-life-contribute-to-health#:~:text=Love%20in%20any%20way%20contributes,provide%20a%20bevy%20of%20benefits.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/healthbeat/strengthen-relationships-for-longer-healthier-life#:~:text=Scientists%20are%20investigating%20the%20biological,and%20friends%20with%20poorer%20health.

 

Zoneinlingo​(neither female) - I'm not looking. But I'll be a friend. Don't give up.
5 days ago
AndronVerified Account - Submissive can be similar to a 1950's housewife as my wife was, BUT she also was an uninhibited lover ( for 40 years) my first two wives were frigid I had to do all the love making. It can build from there plenty of info on this site and online and some good books.
5 days ago
SavannahLyn​(sub female)​{~Umbee~}Verified Account - i mean, i have found several loves online, so i kind of feel really frustrated seeing post titles like this. Though, the stumbling block i see here for you is whether or not your wife is aware that you are looking and has given consent.
5 days ago
AndronVerified Account - Yes, but it is not consent; she has severe cognitive difficulties, Alzheimer's Aphasia, and Dementia, and I can not leave her alone, not even for a cup of coffee. She doesn't know who I am doesn't think we are married. She will seem friendly to women just like aides that I used to pay for (when I had money) so she has no problem even when I briefly had a FWB. They played with dolls together. BUT I HAVE NOTHING> NO COMPANION> NO LOVER AND SOON I FEAR I WILL DIE AS I AM 8 YEARS OLDER THAN SHE. SHE HAS EARLY ONSET COGNITIVE DEGRADATION that will go on and on just as Bruce Willis. I have contemplated suicide several times because not even family cares.
5 days ago

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