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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
10 months ago. Wednesday, April 2, 2025 at 7:22 PM

Intimate Grooming is not just for appearances, it fulfills an important purpose. When considering a new lover who is a stranger to you, a subtle inspection of their pubic area can reveal if they have a health problem or an infestation of pubic lice. If you are a bold type, you can instruct them to undress and have a look. Admittedly, this can break a romantic spell, so think carefully before you plunge into this without considering the potential for a negative effect. 

From an aesthetic point of view, you may like your new lover to be as smooth and clean as a Greek or Roman statue. I admit intimate grooming as a practice together can be arousing too. People who can't make up their mind on the preference can experience a delay in intimacy if they had their lover remove all their body hair, then change their mind and decide they are more excited by seeing body hair.

Now you will have to wait for it all to grow back if you insist.

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