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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
8 months ago. Thursday, May 29, 2025 at 2:02 PM

A person can have an insatiable appetite for just about anything that can be craved: food, drink, money, and especially sex.

How would you describe a sexual partner who has an insatiable appetite to have sex? 

Google AI Overview
"In popular culture, a man or woman who consistently displays a strong desire for sexual activity may be called a nymphomaniac (for a woman) or a satyromaniac (for a man). However, these terms are considered outdated, and healthcare providers now use terms like "hypersexuality," "compulsive sexual behavior," or "sex addiction" to describe the condition. These terms apply to individuals of all genders and sexual orientations." 

Probably could have consulted sexologists in my life at one time or another, but worked through anomalous periods without their help. Strange though I met two sexologists in a social atmosphere, and true to human curiosity, I asked them (both were women BTW) questions and got some free professional advice.

Google AI Overview (as a lead in)
"If a partner expresses a strong desire for frequent sex, it can be a sign of several factors, including biological drives, emotional needs, or even psychological issues. 

Potential Reasons for a strong desire for frequent sex:
Biological Factors; Emotional Needs; Psychological Factors; Biological Factors; Emotional Needs; Psychological Factors.

Bottom line, most people who desire frequent sex fall within a normal spectrum and only require professional help if they exceed or fall far below the range.

 


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