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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
7 months ago. Monday, June 16, 2025 at 12:14 PM

"Each Man Should" have a mistress at some time in his life. 

We males start in our sexual awakening flush with hormones and an almost uncontrollable urge to have sex with every attractive woman we meet. The unwritten code is to be satisfied as often as possible. The majority of us learn how to moderate this natural desire to conform to societal norms.

Then, one day, sometime soon, or sometimes later, we feel emotions creep in, and we either want a relationship or already have one. We fall in love. 

If our lover isn't happy, we do the responsible thing: ask her why and what we can do to be a better partner.

This is the point when having a mistress who can teach you how to make love to a woman is a good option. Set your ego aside and admit you are not thoroughly experienced or knowledgeable enough concerning sex and could learn something. You can learn a great deal from most women, but a woman who is exceptionally knowledgeable and experienced in this matter is the best option.

I am in my late seventies, and over the past year, I have learned more than I expected. I only wish I had learned some things about love-making sooner.

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