Andron(neither male)

The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.

What is a Muse

1 day ago. Thursday, April 9, 2026 at 11:46 AM

A muse can be many things to many people, but what she will be is a she for me, and her beauty shall not be skin deep or fleeting. Blindfolded lovers would soon find out how much real chemistry existed between them when they made love. The inner adventure of life will resonate as they age together; in this case, age is truly only a number. I mentioned Edward Hooper and Josephine Nivison (an artist ) for more than one reason. She was his long-term model and muse, but when I read their story, she also became the dominant administrator in the relationship, to the point that she sacrificed her own art. The country song "I want to be Loved Like that" ¹ applies to her in my eyes. They had a typical husband and wife relationship without perfection, so I am not fantasizing, just hoping I will yet find my muse like her.