Is experimenting with your kikiness a work in progress, or is it a closed door?
An intense lover, I had a relationship about 43 years ago. One day, she suddenly spoke up to me and said, "You sure are kinky." At that time, I hadn't given that any thought. Being with her was an adventure in many things; she had a wild imagination. I should have said, " Wow, you sure are kinky too".
Moving on, I met and married my late wife, who was a natural sub and kinky without ever saying it. I noted her responses and love-making behavior, and forty years later, realized she was kinky. Sometimes I laugh about a memory, like when she said, "Why are men so touchy with anul play?"
From sex education on street corners, free love, and relationships, it has been a long and winding road. Now, with all this knowledge and openness, I am parked at a dead end, and this is the worst thing that has ever happened to me. pixabay images
