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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 week ago. Tuesday, May 12, 2026 at 9:08 AM

I have learned that almost anything in this world is possible, but I ignore the things that upset me unless I can do something to make them better. Realistically, we can only affect what is in our path, but now down to the real point of this post.

I met a woman who told me she was a sub and very kinky. She only wanted brief encounters. I want more than that, and will only entertain a brief encounter as the equivalent of an interview or screening, not a sight-unseen candidate to be my sub. Yes, I have recovered from recent emotional challenges and chose to be a dom in my self-proclaimed style. Now.

I met woman X using a website intended for adults only. We exchanged messages, and we arrived at kink compatibility topics. I always treat women in my life with respect and only ask for the same in return, but we must be erotic and open and able to talk about our sexual preferences in detail. The conversations came to this: As mentioned, she was only looking for brief encounters, but she added one interesting detail:

To arouser her and make her pussy soaking wet all I would have to do is say, "Good girl."

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