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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
2 weeks ago. Tuesday, June 9, 2026 at 8:42 AM

When you take a moment to think about life, many of us will experience at least a moment of terror. We all know how fleeting life can be and how capricious all that can, and does affect us. Writers of movies and television make use of this fact and use inner insecurity to excite our imagination and curiosity. Having a close companion eases the natural anxiety associated with this part of everyday life.

How much time do I have to find a companion like that and develop trust and comfort with one another?

I dream a lot and remember most, some are very odd, but all have some connection to my reality. Therefore, I contemplate their meaning, if any.

The other thing that can enlighten me as to what my subconscious is working on are random flashbacks - not 1960s but everyday things from the past.

Here is an example: Often my friend and I would go fishing in the early morning to a tidal creek near where we lived. The air was still and misty. It was still cool. I have a vivid recollection of the water being moved by the tide, and it seemed all-powerful, and it kept going until the slack tide.

There are many stories connected with that location, including an amazing history, but the image of that clear water moving past me in the cool morning air somehow stands out. Modified pixabay images:


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