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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 week ago. Thursday, June 11, 2026 at 11:27 AM

I was raised very conservatively, but that did not inhibit my impulsive youth. It did take some time to socialize with girls, as most were very cautious - after all, this all began in the late 1950s. Dances (Nuns with rulers) and friends were normal, but in the late 1960s, things changed, and it favored me socially. Some slow-to-change males were hostile and even violent. I survived even knives in the back at the movie theater and drunk juvenile delinquents.

New York City was my playground (my Paris in America). Music, art, and French sexual liaisons. All the mix of World culture and the time of freedom, especially free love, could not have been better for a free-spirited young man like me.

There were several anthems of the era, but one I liked best and the philosophy it projected was Stephen Still's song Love the One You're With (Just a jam)

 

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