I was going through months of caregiving stress without a companion for affection, comfort, or sex for more than three years. I had visited a post where the woman wrote something to the effect that she would teach a class in M/S; I sent a message indicating I would be interested. I went about my tragic history of being scammed at least nine times willing to pay a woman to help me take care of my wife or at least take me off the "this man is seriously horney list." I engaged in one failed attempt to have an FWB after another. It was at that time I noticed I kept getting emails from Priscilla a dominatrix. Finally, after several months of this, I replied who are you?
She told me we briefly met on a friend seekers site and indicated I was interested in learning about a Master-Slave relationship so she told me how to register and when I could have a place in her next class; she added this is a way for you to solve two problems: 1) help caring for my wife and home 22) someone to care for me and my needs. She told me I could have two slaves with you anytime.
Slaves? Really? What kind of slaves? She said they are highly trained. Stay away from ordinary dating sites "they might ruin you." Ruin me? So that was the start of quite an enlightenment. I have an AA in Physics and an assortment of liberal arts studies so including social anthropology would enable me to take that and my seventy-six years of life to quickly grasp what I was taught and see human life from an entirely different perspective from the Western Judio Christian culture I was raised in a taught was the only truth.
A bell went off in my head and it harkened back to my Hippie days and the upheaval that society went through in the Sixties. From Hippie to Soldier of the Month bent on "Debauchery: Extreme indulgence in bodily pleasures and especially sexual pleasures: behavior involving sex, drugs, alcohol, etc. that is often considered immoral. … he was glad when others joined them, men and women; and they had more drink and spent the night in wild rioting and debauchery." (Only a little exaggerated) And then, and then, 50 years of conformity to social "norms mostly" Until family and friends abandoned me to the lone task of care for my lovely wife of 39 years (early onset) Alzheimer's/Dementia/Apashia more than 3 years doing it alone but with health and mental support from The Veterans Administration.