We should have been taught starting with birth to make our way in life. Even though we are individuals and have so many options and variables to choose from we must. Without guidance, on how to gather, assess, and prioritize we are like fish flopping around on the beach. This is true about everyone and to what degree we will assert ourselves is inherent in our personality (I not going to debate nature versus nurture). Ok, let us assume you are accurate in your self-evaluation have made choices, and are acting on them.
You have a dominant characteristic therefore you seek to find a suitable submissive to enter into a relationship: It is up to you to arrive at an accurate a clear agenda to achieve that goal. Embark on a journey intended to enlighten yourself and equip you to live accordingly.
You have a submissive characteristic therefore you seek to find a suitable dominant person to enter into a relationship: It is up to you to arrive at an accurate a clear agenda to achieve that goal. Embark on a journey intended to enlighten yourself and equip you to live accordingly.
Consequences: If you are anything like me you do some things in an orderly and coherent way but there are times you will plunge willy-nilly into something learning many lessons some "the hard way". It is then you dust yourself off and start all over again making the necessary adjustments.
Dom meets Sub: Introduced by a third party, accidentally, from an ad you placed or however it occurred.
Step one: Talk to each other candidly. Then take time to think it over.
Step two: Together develop a plan of action with goals.
Step three: Run a test experiment (if that is part of your plan)
Step four: Go
I am looking for a submissive woman to be with me. She will be my helper and comforter and we should be able to satisfy each other not only emotionally but sexually. She will not replace my wife who is seriously ill. She will not be a nurse for my wife (her help with things in our home will allow me to better care for my wife). I will offer my home and care for her and if it goes well I will offer my love.