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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
2 years ago. Friday, February 9, 2024 at 10:09 AM

The secretions of chemicals that are associated with two people in love are caused by a complex interplay of hormones, pheromones, and other biological factors that are not entirely understood. (I love it a mystery still)

I can feel the excitement in the presence of a woman whom I am attracted to. It can start with a distant glance and if we get closer my heart beats faster and my breathing gets deeper. If we talk I have to be careful to keep my composure and not fumble with my words or if I bring her a cup of coffee shake spill it. Heighten my guard so I don't act foolish. If we brush against each other it freezes me for a second. If we kiss even a simple hello kiss is like an electric shock. Even looking into her eyes at the right moment can jar my whole body.

Love at first sight? I don't know. Lust? I don't know. Yes, that thing we call chemistry that even science can not fully explain. I love it.


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