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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I studied to acquire my Master's status I discovered the M/S relationship existed probably for all the history of humans. Religion and Western Culture distort this greatly. Using codes and euphemisms even denial masks it presents the fact many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marriage friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her" "Love her" I thought I was and did now I know without a doubt I need to be a master, not some preconceived idea we are to live as equals.
3 months ago. February 12, 2024 at 6:12 PM

Hello Friends,

"Blood, Sweat and Tears" not the "Jazz Rock Group the idiom: Two years in Pennsylvania and a Year and a half in my 93-year-old home in the quaint Boyertown with mountains and farms close by (and a lot of nature) just what I need. Caregiving keeps me from taking mental health relaxing rides into the countryside. Whenever I bought a new house (new or old) I had to put BST into the transition. No difference here except my role as a caregiver takes priority so I am relegated to more of a hantyman. 

The house needs maintenance of course and some modifications to accommodate my wife with Alzheimer's. We share one common trait we are tough and refuse to yield to adversity. So my role as a housekeeper, pet minder, bookkeeper bill payer, and caregiver for my wife does require literally Blood Sweat, and Tears.

Yet, I can squeeze a little time to write songs and a blog, and, sometimes watch my favorite British television programs.

Yes I get frustrated, worn out, and flirt with anger, but my center of gravity is LOVE.


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