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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Tuesday, February 13, 2024 at 3:53 PM

Hello all,

I made a friend who is considered an outcast in many cultures: "The gender nonconforming or third-gender, ceremonial roles traditionally embodied by some Native American and Indigenous peoples in Canada . . . ." Twin SpiritsTheopenness in me and acceptance of people who are different has its roots in my experience with the Counter Culture in the 1960s Related to the attitudes of HippiesWe embraced many people who were sincerely different not just there to capitalize on the business of the drug culture, acid rock, civil disobedience, antiwar, civil rights . . .

We had shops that we patronized of course. I collected teas from around the world. Dressed in Mod when it emerged and grew my hair and was beat up because I was so different.  But I demonstrated I could play football, and baseball, and be part of our High School Band too. But when a talent show came up I chose to sing songs by Bob Dylan and my gym teacher slammed me against a locker, "No one is going to like you freak," is what he said. Guess what? I received more than one standing ovation for Bob Dylan's, "Masters of War", "It's a Hard Rain that's Gonna Fall," and at least one of my original songs (My Love's Face).

So, so much has changed and yet so much has not.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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