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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Friday, February 16, 2024 at 3:08 PM

Hello Friends,

Some years ago I was spinning my wheels (so to say) single again after my second wife left me to be a single parent. We shared custody so once I felt comfortable about going out again I began to jump around from night club to night club. I had a couple of romantic dates but no regular girlfriend. This went on for several months but those months felt more like years.  Everywhere I went to: restaurants, bars, lounges, and parties, I scanned all the girls for a possible date. Collected a few numbers it was much harder than when I was active in the entertainment business. Now, a technician I wasn't as special as the singer I once was; One woman at work (not the one I would eventually marry) was a wild and crazy woman who would jump into a moshing pile I discovered on a date with her to an after-hours club in an old factory. The day we first talked ended as most work days we said our good nights to our friends and co-workers.

Went home. I had my supper. It was a Friday, the kids were with the other parents so I watched some television and then went to bed.

I awoke about 3 am and there was someone in bed with me. I raised my head and recognized it was my crazy co-worker; She then said, "I always wanted a man like you." OK with me. She turned out to be the best lover of my life up until then.


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