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The Culture that has been here all the time

When I was introduced to BDSM relationships, I realized they had existed probably for all of human history. Religion and Western Culture distort this and BDSM itself greatly, and if anything, an incredible hypocrisy is always present. Using codes and euphemisms, even denial can mask the fact that many people thrive within this often unrecognized subculture. For example, my wife had all the earmarks of a pleasure slave and was generally devoted and submissive to me. In times of marital friction, I often heard the words from a counselor, "She just wants you to love her." "Love her," I thought I was, and now I know without a doubt I need to be a Dominant, not some preconceived idea that we are to live as equals: we are not only one can be a Dom and one a sub at a time, but, it is perfectly fine if switching is desired at least now and then.
1 year ago. Sunday, February 18, 2024 at 11:58 AM

Hello Friends, It is a cold but beautiful winter's day here.

Once upon a time when my wife was not afflicted by a brain disease, on a beautiful sunny winter's day cold enough so the snow did not melt, we would take a ride. Through the farmlands and the hills look at the beautiful winter landscape. If a snow shower came upon us it would add to the magic. Seeing children riding their sleds down the hills, seeing wooly bully cows or horses with a blanket on. Sometimes we would stop at a place to eat lunch where they had a blazing fire in an old fireplace. The touch of smoke in the air stirred old memories when my family relied on wood-burning stoves. Then as we headed toward home the crystal blue sky began to take on the wonder of a sunset, where the horizon had gone gold and amber but the sky above was indigo; Then the stars twinkled like specs of silver in lapis lazuli.

Yes I miss those days a great deal


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