Hello Friends,
We were married in 1985 we both were previously married, me twice she once we both had a daughter and a son. She rescued me from single parenthood and I rescued her from single parenthood. I asked her to quit her job and stay with the home and children. That was the main pattern for ten years. After rough financial situations (I was laid off 3 times) and a chapter 13 to save our house she began a part-time job. We were Christians.
The first thing she said to me about our sex life? My body is yours and yours is mine. what we do in our bedroom is our business and what we do is whatever we like as long as no one gets hurt. It was from that point she taught me more than I could teach her.
Now? She isn't interested in sex. Too bad I have gained much information that could have made her happy.
Too many drills and no actual sex has made me dull and sometimes I just feel angry. I get over it quickly as a caregiver I can not be angry it isn't a good thing.
Lyrics always fill my head some are my own some come from other songwriters: Like poetry, they speak louder than the words themselves.
"It takes a worried man to sing a worried son . . . ." Worried Man Blues Song by the Carter Family 1930 during "The Great Depression".1
1 from People Ask What is the story behind the song Worried Man Blues?
"Worried Man Blues" is an American folk song that folklorists generally believe originated with African American singers. The lyrics describe the experiences of someone who is arrested for unspecified reasons and sentenced to work on a chain gang.
